Kris moments: Hair hair hair...more bangs?

I'm having a slight issue. okay okay, it is bigger than a slight issue, but only because my hair is pretty important to me. it sounds lame, however, it is very true! God blessed me with it and I have taken the best care of it as I can since I learned how to take care of my hair. and because of that, in about 4 or 5 more inches, I can donate it! it has never been completely coloured or bleached, cut in a dramatic hairstyle, or burnt. I also don't blow dry it more than maybe 30-42 times a year. sometimes I don't wear makeup and sometimes I am dressed like a hobo, but I do my very best to have my hair look descent. so my big issue is this...

the last time I got my hair cut (about a month ago) the lady cutting my hair convinced me to get a little more bang going on. I'm sure it took me longer to decide than the normal person. I gave in and got this...

I like it, for the most part. there are days I love my bangs and other days that they just aren't working, ya know? I have apple cheeks which makes me very hesitant with doing things with my haircuts in fear of emphasizing them more than they already are. I am also a little self conscious about my large forehead. this pic's angle kinda shows how I see my forehead about 64% of the time. not too bad, but I'm always willing to try to illusion it into looking slightly smaller ;)

I think the bangs above where what I had in mind, but my forehead isn't that small and my part is a tad over to the other side.

I love these bangs!
but would they mess up like this ALL the time? would it drive me so very crazy? would I have to keep brushing them to the side making my bangs get all oily/greasy faster?

the bangs below are cute, yeah? not too thick is nice, in my opinion. then I can push them to the side a little if I wanted, but have them across if I preferred it. I wouldn't have to curl them all the time, would I?